Why 'NICE' Guys Fail With Women : Part 2

Let's review a few of the most important
concepts to remember when it comes to attracting
women:

1) ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE. As humans, we don't
"consciously choose" who we FEEL attracted to. It
just "happens" to us... BANG! And you can't
"convince" someone to FEEL this powerful emotion.

2) ATTRACTION DOESN'T MAKE SENSE. When you think
about the concept of being emotionally attracted
to another person, it only "makes sense" that you
should feel attracted to good qualities like
"niceness" and "honesty" and "loyalty", right?
Well guess what... ATTRACTION doesn't play by
those rules. The things that we are ATTRACTED to
don't make "logical sense" when you look at them.
We all know that attractive women seem to date a
lot of abusive jerks... and that men often
stay in relationships with unhappy, domineering
women. For ATTRACTION to make "logical sense", you
must learn how it works, and get a deeper
understanding of what triggers it.

3) STATUS is very important when it comes to
ATTRACTION. Women are almost NEVER attracted to
men of "lower status" than themselves. This is why
certain stereotypes exist, such as women not
liking shorter men, and women who make a lot of
money being intimidating to men.

4) ATTRACTIVE WOMEN HAVE A LOT OF CHOICES. Most
men have never even taken a minute of their lives
to consider what it must be like to be an
attractive woman. Attractive women are approached
in one way or another ALL THE TIME by men who are
interested in them. For an attractive woman, every
smile, every kind gesture, and every favor is in
one way or another viewed as INTEREST. An
attractive woman is approached in one way or
another MANY times a day. It would be impossible
for an attractive woman to give even a small
fraction of her time to each of the men who shows
interest in her.

5) MEN ARE SOOOOO UNORIGINAL. Just as most men
have never given a thought to how it must feel and
what it must be like to be an attractive woman,
most men have never given a thought to the fact
that MEN ARE PREDICTABLE BEYOND BELIEF... from an
attractive woman's point of view. The comment or
compliment that you think is so original, or the
invitation to a date... or the question about her
having a boyfriend... or the comment that "her
boyfriend is a lucky man"... is so UNORIGINAL,
PREDICTABLE... AND WORST OF ALL, BORING to an
attractive woman. She gets this stuff 100 times a
day! And men who are unoriginal do NOT stand out
from the crowd.

6) ATTRACTIVE WOMEN HAVE WUSS-DAR! There are a few
simple, unmistakable signals that men give off
that say, "Hey, I'm just another WUSS, so don't
pay attention to anything else I do, because I'll
always be one"... which, of course, makes women
RUN. (As a side note, attractive women also have
NON-WUSS-DAR as well. In other words, from a few
simple clues, an attractive woman can quickly know
if she is dealing with a man who is NOT a Wuss,
and who, therefore, will be one of the few who are
allowed the time and consideration for romantic
interactions.)

Soooo, what is it about being a WUSS that is
the big problem here?

Why is it that of all things in the world, this
is the "big sin" when it comes to attracting
women?