How To Approach A Woman ANYWHERE
Here are a few things that I've come up with:
1) Most attractive women are BORED OUT OF THEIR
MINDS by most men. One of the reasons for this is
that guys have NO IDEA what to do when they run
into an attractive woman, so they do the same
default thing: Dumb look, compliment.
2) As I've said before, and I'm sure I'll say
many, many, many times in the future: You can't
BORE a woman into feeling attracted to you. If
she's most likely got a boring life like everyone
else, and you do something that every one of the
other 499 guys she's going to walk by this month
did, then you're probably not going to attract any
special attention.
3) If you just start with the idea of NOT DOING
WHAT OTHER GUYS DO you will be WAAAAYYYY ahead of
the game.
Wow, this is fun, isn't it? Bet you never
thought you'd be thinking like a woman, did ya?
So, what are a few things you might do to?
Maybe NOT be like the other 499 boring,
predictable, "nice" loser guys she encountered?
And maybe BE interesting, attractive,
attention-getting in a way that makes her feel
like you might actually be someone to provide her
with a pinch of spice in her life?
I thought you'd never ask...
And, as you may have already predicted, I have
a few more ideas of my own (but don't let that
stop you from thinking about this on your own as
often as you get a chance).
To start with, you'd probably want to get rid
of the "Wow, you're a beautiful woman, and I'm
just an average guy admiring you" vibe. That's not
helping.
Next, you could take a moment and think about
how a guy that she would feel ATTRACTED to might
act... then choose that style.
My experience is that if you take an attitude
of "I guess fate has good taste putting us in the
same place, now let's see if you have a
personality to match your looks", then stir in a
generous portion of Cocky & Funny, you're likely
to do well.
Here's a variation of something I've used
myself once or twice.
YOU: "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?"
[leaning back and playing it cool, talking cool
and slow]
HER: "Sure"
[pause.. pause.. pause for suspense]
YOU: "Are you single?" [stone cold straight face]
HER: "Well, um..."
YOU: "I'll take that as a yes..." [nodding, sly
smile]
HER: [Laugher]
YOU: "Well, I just happen to know someone that I
think might really like you... if you're more than
just a pretty face, that is... He's funny, has
great taste, and I think you'd like him... I'd
love to sit down and get your life story, but I'm
on my way somewhere... do you have email?" [very
cool, calm tone of voice]
HER: "Yes."
YOU: Great... [takes out pen]... write it down for
me, and I'll have, uh [clears throat] HIM send you
an email."
[Get email and wish the lady a good day.]

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